Are you looking for counselling support with somebody that you can relate to?
My story is one of exhilarating successes and debilitating setbacks. I`m fortunate in having had great success in sales plus 20 years experience in self employment. I think it`s fair to say that I`m familiar with the highs and lows of life, having acquired some of the less appealing "t-shirts" as well the great ones.
Extensive travel, a home and a family lifestyle were the paybacks for the risks, long hours and responsibility however, there`s always a price to pay.
The associated stress and anxiety were costly and the portentous life long reach of depression often had a heavy hand on my shoulder. Ongoing however, my life was blessed with beautiful children and the unparalleled joy they brought was life affirming. I was complete, at this point.
I am familiar also with the experience of loss and grief and its crippling effect on energy and motivation.
Additionally the loss of a loved one, a stalling career and empty nest syndrome all ensured that I fell into a place of being lost, stuck and absolutely broken... I can attest to the fact we can return to being whole and happy again!
Alcohol throughout was an easy and reliable friend, used to help null away the relentless mundanities and stresses of the days however, that brought it`s own pernicious problems and only exacerbated the anxiety of it all. Once I understood that certain feelings triggered the perceived relief of alcohol, then it`s appeal dissipated. This has now become invaluable when working with others stuck in that space.

Aside from my professional qualifications, I am qualified also with the experience of anxiety and depression which had been a part of me since my early teens. and grief and its corrosive effect on confidence, identity and self-esteem. Additionally, the loss of a loved one, empty nest syndrome and a stalled career all ensured that I fell into a place of being lost, stuck and absolutely broken.
It was in these emotionally austere times that I immersed myself into voluntary work and was happily lost in the pursuit of helping others rather than being consumed by my own problems. It was fortuitous that a kind stroke of fate enabled me to discover the world of counselling in the helping community and that I found my calling. Passionately I invested the next four years of my life studying Level 5 Therapeutic Counselling at The Manchester College. It was here that I found purpose, reward and vocation… I found me.
So, you know my story. I can actually say that the darkest periods are what brought me into the light of counselling and a new career and I can see why I had to go through these times.
On reflection, thankfully, I was able to turn it all around and gain something out of it, I now understand the path I had to take and why.
So, you know my story, I can actually say that the darkest periods are what brought me into the light of counselling and a new career and I can see why I had to go through these times.
On reflection, thankfully, I was able to turn it all around and gain something out of it, I now understand the path I had to take and why.
If any of this resonates with you then you`ll know that I`ll understand something about the space you’re in at the moment. I can help facilitate you to a better place, to be okay with yourself and have the confidence to strive towards what you’re looking for.
The best time to begin the journey to change is now, get in touch for your free consultation and become the version of yourself that you’re meant to be.
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